I have kept this a bit hush-hush, but my latest book is now out. It’s only available in various E-book formats from my store.
It’s been a long time in the making considering that I have had people asking me to write this for about 20 years. As you will see from the description of it, this is not the kind of book written by a guy who did everything right first time and was happily married for 30 years.
I am sure those guys do have a bit of advice to give, just like a soldier that has come completely unscathed through D-Day might, but one needs to also understand that such people are statistically bound to exist and don’t necessarily have anything worthwhile to teach in terms of avoiding the pitfalls. Rest assured that I have made just about every mistake and survived every destructive event that can happen in relationships, so think of me as your battle-scarred captain, that has survived D-Day and a bunch of other conflicts not by luck alone, but also because after each engagement, he did not forget the bitter lessons learnt.
Truly it is only by the Grace of God and uncommon obstinacy that I now find myself happily married (third time lucky) with a bunch of children at the age of 54.
I truly hope this book helps to demystify a lot of the specious nonsense that unfortunately abounds on the internet, in books, in the hallowed halls of psychiatrists and in the bottom of too many alcoholic drinks spent in commiseration of some tragic affair of the heart.
