Don’t despair young man

I tend to catch up on Adam’s blog once in a while since his frequency is not daily or even weekly at times and today I read this post of his, where he got an email from some depressed and saddened young man.

In all honesty, aside the funny video, which I have seen many times before and enjoyed, I thought Adam’s reply was not exactly helpful.

I’d like to take the same excerpt of the man’s email Adam posted and respond to it, as I would publicly. Although in all honesty I would probably have responded privately, as I generally do to readers’ emails, time permitting.

I am very frustrated and depressed about the craziness going on in the world that I am barely holding onto my faith. I am not exactly agnostic but I guess I’ll consider myself ex-Catholic. I can’t reconcile the good news in the Bible juxtaposed against the reality of evil in this world, but not only that evil is here but at this point it is consuming everything and is never going to get better. Neither Heaven or Hell (in their conventional Christian understanding) sound as appealing to me and for a long time I lost motivation and appetite for spirituality.

I also wished I could have dated since high school, I have been single my entire life except for one time I dated a girl for almost 12 months. I am now feeling more grieved and frustrated about it because everyday the crazy stuff in the world gets worse and worse and I feel like I am running out of time. I know that there will not be any new families or sexual/romantic relationships in Heaven and it is really disappointing me. I guess I’m looking for some kind of sympathetic reply.

It seems pretty clear to me this man’s depression would be gone if he had a hot woman that loved him dearly by his side. So, telling him that he needs to first conquer the world before he can get that woman is not going to help him get out of that rut.

I’d like to know why he didn’t date in high-school. Was it due to a religious belief? Shyness? Being ugly and generally and incel? That would help me have a better sense of the guy and hence be more able to make relevant suggestions.

Here is the thing though: No matter who you are, there is someone out there that suits you and would make life a LOT more worthwhile for you. The hard part if finding her. And then both of you recognising it in each other.

I imagine that being alone, feeling alone, perhaps not being exactly popular even before the scamdemic with girls, and now maybe being a pureblood and not wanting to contemplate breeding with the vaxxed, it would be quite easy for a young man to get depressed.

Adam himself wrote in his first book how when he was young he also, like all young men wondered if one day he might ever experience sex. And when we thought about that, even in an African desertic area that may as well have been a moisture farm on Tatooine, the world felt full of possibilities. Now it fees like everyone is living under a soviet style dictatorship. Emphasis on feels. In reality, under full covid restrictions I moved about wherever I wanted, my good friend that lived with us for a year helping out on the farm travelled by plane around Europe and neither of us got the genetic serums. So the first point to realise is that yes the world is mostly run by evil Satanic pedophiles that want you dead and enslaved, but it was always this way. Now you just know about it.

The most important point to have in life is mental strength. When everyone else is giving up is when you get inspired to push on even more than before. See the ones dropping like flies around you as a bonus. You’re still going! It’s proof those guys are not up to your standard. Admittedly, even before I met any Russians at all, I always had that “if he dies he’s no good for Spetsnaz” attitude and I know not everyone is born with it, but you should try and get that kind of attitude anyway in life.

As for “doing things” and leaving a mark before you get the girl, sure, that is generally how it works out, but it’s wrong to think that is how you motivate yourself. The motivation is the other way round. You want the girl? So become someone worthy of whatever fantasy girl you have in your head. The one you will eventually end up with will not be exactly as you fantasise, but for some of us, it works out she is even better than what you imagined, and it’s not so rare that things end up working out that way as you might think.

As for the vaxxed, if you’re a pureblood, it makes things easier to sort the viable ones (purebloods) from the vaxxed. It is a great sifter of people, and now you know the ones that are of your tribe a lot easier.

As for that feeling that you’re running out of time? It’s not real… yet, but act like it in terms of doing stuff and achieving goals. Work your ass off. Do the things required to win. To make a lot of money fast. To buy property. To climb that ladder of material success, sure, it’s worldly crap, but you’re in a kind of Hell, so play the game and win even at their stupid game, but never be in a rush. Be calm and steady even as you run all day and all night to create whatever it is you envision for your life with the dreamgirl.

Me, I was always chasing the dreamgirl. And the stuff I was doing I was doing it only because it interested me. I travelled, I took on dangerous work and dangerous hobbies because I wanted to. I wasn’t trying to impress anyone, in fact that thought didn’t even register as a thing. I did what I did because I was curious. I kept at martial arts because I wanted to see if I could get really good. I worked in close protection because it suited my temperament and my way of being and thinking. I read all sorts of books because I have always been insatiably curious. And so on it went. I changed countries, careers and women because that is how life worked out for me and because I took roads others mostly would not have but that interested me. And while I attempted to “find” the dreamgirl in every pretty woman I became intimate with, I also kind of knew they weren’t it. And when I did meet her I knew right away. Even without knowing. Yet I knew. And in her own way, so did she.

Believe me, I have seen this a lot. Stay strong and keep walking, do NOT despair, remain standing when all around you have fallen, and you will eventually find her too. But not if you despair and black-pill yourself. That is not the Way.

And I hope Adam lets that young man know of this post, as I think it will help him a little more.

Ignore the evil. Live with the flame of God’s crusaders inside you, until your last breath.

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